What Women [Don't] Want

Trying to figure out a woman, and just what they are looking for in a man is a hard thing for anyone to do. It’s cruel, but true. Many guys fail at picking up a woman because they seem to think they know exactly what a girl is looking for. The truth is, in an attempt to understand woman, you are better off remembering just what they don’t want instead. Trying to figure out the answer to an equation you know nothing about can prove to be worthless. It isn’t until you decide to look at it from another perspective that you gain a better understanding, as well as a more accurate solution.

You may have noticed that there are some guys out there that can pick up any woman they want, while others are left to struggle and fail at getting anywhere. The reason for this is, woman look for a man that is not afraid to admit to being passionate about something. Try starting a conversation about what you are passionate about, and listen to what she has to say in return. If a woman can tell that you are really being sincere about the fact that you actually care about something, anything, they will feel more inclined to learn more about you.

Proving to a woman that you are a kind person and will treat her right is not something she is interested in right off the bat. In fact, she is more interested in someone who can make her feel like they are being sincere. Instead of being a nice guy, try doing the exact opposite. Without going overboard, try giving the jerk in you a chance to talk. Doing this will make her realize that you are strong and powerful and in turn will make her feel safe and secure when she is around you. Taking this tactic into play will make the woman see how real you are, instead of how fake you would come off as being the nice guy.

Character, as well as passion, are the two key things to getting to a woman’s heart. While these two things may seem simple and maybe even a little absurd, they work. As long as you can be true to yourself, but still take into consideration what a woman really wants out of a man, you can use this advice to your advantage.

Three Tips For Getting A Girl To Like You

No matter who you are, the dating scene can get to anyone’s nerves at one point or another. Some guys find it easy to pick up a girl, other guys however, have a much more difficult time being confident around the ladies. If you happen to be one of those guys that can’t seem to talk to a woman without getting nervous and sweating profusely, than you may find these three things useful in successfully picking up a woman.

1. The first impression. This is one of the most important things you should keep in mind. Looking your best is key, because your appearance is the first thing a woman notices. If you don’t think you look good, than the woman will probably not think you look good either. If you are willing to put in the effort to bathe, dress nice and comb your hair, you have a good chance at getting past that initial first impression stage.

2. Breaking the ice. When you are introducing yourself to her, you need to have confidence, even if it is a false confidence. Being relaxed and calm will make her feel more comfortable when talking to her. If you are approaching a girl who is with a groups of friends, you should try to impress everyone, and not just the girl. If you use humor and you get them to laugh, you should keep in mind that you still need to stay in control in order to have a successful experience.

3. Listen. It does not matter how funny, or clever you are, if you do not make an attempt to listen to her when she speaks to you, you will probably turn her off and make her lose interest. Paying attention to what she tells you will make a next meeting go smoothly. If she talks to you about something she enjoys keep it in mind so you have something to discuss, or even do, the next time you see her. It will also help you set up an actual date if you are given the option of doing so.

As long as you follow these three simple rules of meeting a girl, you will be able to bag a date in no time. Just remain calm and confident, and the chances of getting noticed by any girl your into will greatly improve.

How Do You Make Her Like You?

While some men may think that getting a woman is something of a second nature talent they have, the reality of it is, it actually takes some thought. There are plenty of guys that think that they should be able to get any woman they want, and yet are too terrified of being rejected to even try. Being able to successfully get any girl you want requires some knowledge, and to help you out with that knowledge I will clue you in to two very important things.

To put it simply, women are just that, woman. This means that they are going to be looking for a man that can prove to her that he is in fact a man. Whether they admit it or not, every woman wants a guy that can excite her, and yet make her feel like he has any situation under control. It is a simple, and yet very true fact that most woman will what a man that can dominate, rather than be dominated. Most women are run by their emotions and that is what draws them toward guys that seem to have a bad boy quality about them.

A woman’s emotions are the center for a lot of the choices they make. In fact, there are times when logic and emotion come head to head, and wouldn’t you know it, the emotion wins. So with that said, a woman is going to want a man that can get into her emotional side, and make her feel that tingly almost dangerous feeling. She is also going to want to feel protected and safe, and if you carry yourself in any way other than a strong dominant male, she may not even give you the time of day. This is true for more than just humans, and while we have far surpassed most other animals in terms of evolution, we still all share the same common mating rituals. The man needs to prove himself worthy, before the woman will even take a second look.

Learning the best way to get into a woman’s emotions is the first step in being able to get any woman you want. Learn how to be a dominant alpha male, and make her feel safe around you, and chances are you will have any woman begging for more of you in no time at all.

Dating For Fun | Six Things That Will Make Him Want You

Here are some things you should keep in mind when you enter any relationship. These tips can make your relationship more successful, and the chances of having to go through another hard breakup will be slim to none.

1. Independence.

While men need to feel like they are needed, they also want to feel like you are fully capable of taking care of yourself, yet you choose to be with him. If you are constantly whining about something or always come off as needy, then you will probably push him away. Instead, do your own thing, but continue to turn to him in his times of need.

2. Be Happy.

No one wants to be around someone who is always crying or yelling about this or that. You need to be able to enjoy life and take just about everything in stride. If you are happy and cheerful, your man will want to be happy and cheerful with you.

3. He is a man.

So let him be the man every now and then. Regardless of how useless you think a man is, they are actually fully capable of making dinner plans, or paying the tab every once in a while. A relationship takes two, so if you are always the one dictating everything, he is going to cut you lose.

4. Give Him Support.

Everyone has something hard they are going to have to deal with in their lives. Yes, even men, so when he needs you, be there for him. This will give him a sense of security and reliability in you.

5. Do Not Cling To Him.

Giving your guy everything they ask for is only going to be fun for a while. Sooner or later, they are going to get bored and look for the next best thing that can keep his interest. To avoid that from happening, you should be careful to not over do your willingness to please him.

6. Do Not Get Lazy.

The biggest mistake any woman can make once they are in a relationship is take it for granted. By that I mean, once you get comfortable around him you start to get lazy when it comes to dressing nice, or wearing makeup. Even if you do not do it every day, try to keep it up more than once every blue moon.

Five Easy Ways To Keep Her Hooked

If you met a girl you are really interested in, and you think she likes you back, but want to make sure she is hooked, there are some things you should keep in mind. Chances are, if you aren’t careful you may end up pushing her away, which will be the exact opposite of what you were wanting. To keep that from happening, and to pretty much guarantee that she will be hooked on you for a long time, you should consider doing the following.

1. Don’t Get Obsessive.
If you try too hard to get her attention and are constantly wanting to spend time with her, she may get annoyed and want to be left alone, for good. Giving her space to breath, and staying away from acting desperate is the best thing you can do. Let her know you are interested, but do not suffocate her.

2. Let Her Know You Care.

This is a very important step to keeping any woman. If you let her know that you care about her, she will feel safe, and will want to do everything she can to keep you caring for her. Most women will want to find a man that they can spend the rest of their lives with, and no woman is going to stick by a man that never shows her how much he really does care for her.

3. Surprise Her

Giving gifts for her birthday and on holidays is just a given gesture that everyman knows how to do. When it comes to keeping her mind set on you, and not wondering off into thoughts of what other guys might be like, you should do things for her on days that gifts aren’t called for. Little gestures every now and then will keep her set on you.

4. Give Her Support

Everyone has to deal with rough patches in their lives. When a woman is forced to, she will want you there to lean on. Your job is to be there for her no matter what. Let her know that she can rely on you.

5. Laziness Will Kill You!

Looking nice to catch a woman is great, but keeping up with it is key. Don’t let yourself go, instead keep up with your appearance to remind her that she has a good catch on her arm.

You Got The Number!…Now What?

This maybe should not be in this section, but even though it’s written from a guy perspective, it really does apply to both men and women, so let’s go with it.

This is actually something that happens to a lot of people. Your spending a night with your friends at a bar, and a beautiful girl walks in and catches your eye. You finally got tired of your friends telling you to go over to her, so you did. You got up and went over to talk to her, and much to your surprise she was interested. In fact, she even gave you her phone number! So now that you have it, you are stricken with the ultimate questions. When do you call? How long should you wait before you call?

With text messaging being so common these days, it is no big deal if you want to send her a text once you’ve left the bar. Just let her know you had fun and that you will be giving her a call at some point to arrange to hang out again.

Back before the days of texting, and being able to get everything quickly, it used to be proper for a man to call a woman after about two days. However, now that we can pretty much get anything we want, and fast, taking that long to call a woman may leave her thinking you really weren’t interested after all. This is why, once you get her number, you should call her no more than a day later.

She clearly wanted to see you again, otherwise she would never have given you her phone number, so instead of waiting too long, and running the risk of her forgetting about you, give her a call after a day to arrange to meet again.

The best thing to do before calling, however, is to think of a few things you can arrange to do on your date. Get a couple ideas started before you call her, so you will be sure to have something to say.

Try your best to keep the conversation short and simple. The whole point of the phone call is to let her know you have not forgotten about her, and to set up a date to see each other again. Don’t say too much because you may run the risk of changing her mind. Save your life story for another day, besides, you are going to need to use some of that as something to talk about when you finally do go on the date.

The One Simple Way To Seduce A Man!

Have you ever wanted to know you could do to get a man to fall for you without having to worry about dressing up? While some women choose to use their sex appeal to get into a guy’s head, there is actually a much simpler way to do it. All you need to do it utter one simple phrase to any man, and you will be on his mind for days to come.

Putting out might get your man to come back to you form more, but he will never actually be interested in going any further into a relationship with you. This is something most, if not all, woman know all too well. While this is true is most cases, this is not the only way to keep your man wanting more, in fact, all you have to do is get into his head just enough and you will leave him craving to see you again. The best thing about doing this is, you can keep him right where you want him until he feels he is ready to actually make a commitment to you.

There is just one simple sentence you can say to him, and if you do it at the right moment, you will leaving wanting to come back for more. The moment you know the man you are talking to you is interested in you, all you have to do is wait until the time is right, give him a playful smile, and say:

“You’re not ready for this.”

Once you say it, change the subject of your conversation, avoiding any chance of him being able to respond to it. In fact, carry on your conversation as though you had never said anything at all.

Why? Because it will take him by surprise, get into his head, and will be almost impossible for him to forget.

This tactic makes sense, as most woman would be doing the exact opposite to get his attention. You will be throwing him off, and making him think. Taking this approach will keep him from feeling the pressure of having to make a move, and will actually make him feel as though you are wrong. Think of it as reverse psychology, you tell him he isn’t ready, so he automatically starts to think that he is, and will try to take your relationship into a direction you were hoping for.

Attract A Woman And Get A Date

Every man wants to be able to get any girl he wants. In fact, most men would prefer to be able to attract a woman without being the one to initiate it, or as some might see it, chasing them. Well, it is possible, with a little bit of knowledge, you will be able to figure out just how to work your magic on a woman without actually having to make the first move. This is something every guy should know because it can make getting a date much easier than you think. If you pay close attention to what I am going to tell you, you should not have to worry about being rejected ever again.

A woman’s emotions are the control center of everything they do. No matter what her mind might be telling her about a guy that seems to be a complete jerk, the emotions are really what’s running the game. If her emotions are where the attraction to a man lies, than chances are she will take them up on the offer to go on a date. You may have heard that woman are drawn to bad boys and their emotions are the reason for it. Being a jerk, or a bad boy is what makes a woman, in most cases, feel they are exciting. Knowing just what it is that excites a woman is key to getting her to come to you.

Many guys seem to think that you need to be rich or handsome in order for a woman to be attracted to you. Fortunately for most men, this idea simply is not true. What really attracts women is the way you carry yourself. If you have enough confidence, without going overboard into conceited, and can present yourself in the right way, you will do fine. Having a great personality and confidence can get you any woman you want, without needing to put too much effort into it.

If you keep these things in mind the next time you want to attract a woman, you should be able to do it easier than ever before. There are also some programs available online that you will have to pay for, but they can be more helpful if you want a little more information. Whatever resource you use, as long as you follow the advice properly, you will succeed.

Some First Date Questions

If you find yourself spending too much time celebrating, and little or no time thinking about what you are going to talk about when you go on the date, you can come off as boring or nervous. Well, to help you out in your time of need, I will tell you seven great questions you can ask your date to get a conversation going in the right direction. Not only will you show that you care about her, you can show her that you really aren’t boring.

Question 1. Do you have any siblings?

You may be tempted to ask her about her parents in order to get the conversation rolling, but instead of running the risk of starting a depressing conversation, ask about her siblings. A parent may have passed away, but the siblings will most likely be a safe question to ask.

Question 2. What are her hobbies?
This will help you find out what interests her, as well as starting the conversation in a direction that can have you chatting away for a while.

Question 3. Is she in school/working?
When you are trying to stick with safe topics that will not take the mood of the date in a bad direction, you are usually pretty well off with this one.

Question 4. What are her goals?
You can ask this when it comes to life in general, or you can use this to find out what she wants to do with her career.

Question 5. What kind of books does she read/what music does she listen to?
Almost every one either reads, or listens to music so this is a great way to get to know what her style and taste is.

Question 6. What movies or television shows does she like?
You never know if you might have something in common, and f you like the same kinds of shows or movies, you may be able to set up another date based off the information she gives you.

Question 7. Does she like sports?
This is something else you may have in common, which can also lead to a future date that is successful because it will be based off a mutual interest.

Starting a good conversation is the best thing you can do when you are on a first date. It will make you both comfortable and will raise your chances of seeing her again.

Getting Her To Stop Ignoring You

If you have ever tried to get a woman’s attention and let her know you are into her, and yet could never get her to quite like you back, you are not alone. There are tons of guys that have a hard time getting the point across properly and they always seem to get the feeling that she is just ignoring their attempts all together. While you cannot actually force a woman to like you, there are some things you can do to get her attention onto you and keep it there. As long as you follow these two things you should be able to leave that feeling of being ignored behind you.

Techniques for getting her to like you in return:

1. Jealousy.

If you are looking for a surefire weapon to use when getting a girl to like you, jealousy is in your corner. Using jealousy to your advantage will give you an ability many men wish for. When a girl is whit a group of friends, and she just isn’t getting the idea you are trying to get across, simply start talking to her friends. The more attention you give to them, the more desirable you will appear to her. Give this a try and see for yourself, a little jealousy goes a long way.

2. Fractionation.

You may or may not have heard of the emotional rollercoaster known as fractionation. What this is, is the intentional method of hypnosis that will put your woman on the ride of a life time which will get them to emotionally depend on you, thus, wanting you more than ever. If you make a woman go through a sad emotional state, then a happy one, and back to a sad one, and so on, you will be able to get her to associate you with her happy moments. The more she associates you with happy times, the more she will be willing to be around you.

Not everyone agrees with the second technique, but agree with it or not it works, and works fast. Fifteen minutes to get a girl to fall for you is a pretty reliable method if you ask me.

While it is thought of as something of a dark way to get a girl to like you, using a hypnosis method when seducing a woman is defiantly an effective seduction technique.

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