Three Tips For Getting A Girl To Like You

No matter who you are, the dating scene can get to anyone’s nerves at one point or another. Some guys find it easy to pick up a girl, other guys however, have a much more difficult time being confident around the ladies. If you happen to be one of those guys that can’t seem to talk to a woman without getting nervous and sweating profusely, than you may find these three things useful in successfully picking up a woman.

1. The first impression. This is one of the most important things you should keep in mind. Looking your best is key, because your appearance is the first thing a woman notices. If you don’t think you look good, than the woman will probably not think you look good either. If you are willing to put in the effort to bathe, dress nice and comb your hair, you have a good chance at getting past that initial first impression stage.

2. Breaking the ice. When you are introducing yourself to her, you need to have confidence, even if it is a false confidence. Being relaxed and calm will make her feel more comfortable when talking to her. If you are approaching a girl who is with a groups of friends, you should try to impress everyone, and not just the girl. If you use humor and you get them to laugh, you should keep in mind that you still need to stay in control in order to have a successful experience.

3. Listen. It does not matter how funny, or clever you are, if you do not make an attempt to listen to her when she speaks to you, you will probably turn her off and make her lose interest. Paying attention to what she tells you will make a next meeting go smoothly. If she talks to you about something she enjoys keep it in mind so you have something to discuss, or even do, the next time you see her. It will also help you set up an actual date if you are given the option of doing so.

As long as you follow these three simple rules of meeting a girl, you will be able to bag a date in no time. Just remain calm and confident, and the chances of getting noticed by any girl your into will greatly improve.

How Do You Make Her Like You?

While some men may think that getting a woman is something of a second nature talent they have, the reality of it is, it actually takes some thought. There are plenty of guys that think that they should be able to get any woman they want, and yet are too terrified of being rejected to even try. Being able to successfully get any girl you want requires some knowledge, and to help you out with that knowledge I will clue you in to two very important things.

To put it simply, women are just that, woman. This means that they are going to be looking for a man that can prove to her that he is in fact a man. Whether they admit it or not, every woman wants a guy that can excite her, and yet make her feel like he has any situation under control. It is a simple, and yet very true fact that most woman will what a man that can dominate, rather than be dominated. Most women are run by their emotions and that is what draws them toward guys that seem to have a bad boy quality about them.

A woman’s emotions are the center for a lot of the choices they make. In fact, there are times when logic and emotion come head to head, and wouldn’t you know it, the emotion wins. So with that said, a woman is going to want a man that can get into her emotional side, and make her feel that tingly almost dangerous feeling. She is also going to want to feel protected and safe, and if you carry yourself in any way other than a strong dominant male, she may not even give you the time of day. This is true for more than just humans, and while we have far surpassed most other animals in terms of evolution, we still all share the same common mating rituals. The man needs to prove himself worthy, before the woman will even take a second look.

Learning the best way to get into a woman’s emotions is the first step in being able to get any woman you want. Learn how to be a dominant alpha male, and make her feel safe around you, and chances are you will have any woman begging for more of you in no time at all.

You Got The Number!…Now What?

This maybe should not be in this section, but even though it’s written from a guy perspective, it really does apply to both men and women, so let’s go with it.

This is actually something that happens to a lot of people. Your spending a night with your friends at a bar, and a beautiful girl walks in and catches your eye. You finally got tired of your friends telling you to go over to her, so you did. You got up and went over to talk to her, and much to your surprise she was interested. In fact, she even gave you her phone number! So now that you have it, you are stricken with the ultimate questions. When do you call? How long should you wait before you call?

With text messaging being so common these days, it is no big deal if you want to send her a text once you’ve left the bar. Just let her know you had fun and that you will be giving her a call at some point to arrange to hang out again.

Back before the days of texting, and being able to get everything quickly, it used to be proper for a man to call a woman after about two days. However, now that we can pretty much get anything we want, and fast, taking that long to call a woman may leave her thinking you really weren’t interested after all. This is why, once you get her number, you should call her no more than a day later.

She clearly wanted to see you again, otherwise she would never have given you her phone number, so instead of waiting too long, and running the risk of her forgetting about you, give her a call after a day to arrange to meet again.

The best thing to do before calling, however, is to think of a few things you can arrange to do on your date. Get a couple ideas started before you call her, so you will be sure to have something to say.

Try your best to keep the conversation short and simple. The whole point of the phone call is to let her know you have not forgotten about her, and to set up a date to see each other again. Don’t say too much because you may run the risk of changing her mind. Save your life story for another day, besides, you are going to need to use some of that as something to talk about when you finally do go on the date.

Some First Date Questions

If you find yourself spending too much time celebrating, and little or no time thinking about what you are going to talk about when you go on the date, you can come off as boring or nervous. Well, to help you out in your time of need, I will tell you seven great questions you can ask your date to get a conversation going in the right direction. Not only will you show that you care about her, you can show her that you really aren’t boring.

Question 1. Do you have any siblings?

You may be tempted to ask her about her parents in order to get the conversation rolling, but instead of running the risk of starting a depressing conversation, ask about her siblings. A parent may have passed away, but the siblings will most likely be a safe question to ask.

Question 2. What are her hobbies?
This will help you find out what interests her, as well as starting the conversation in a direction that can have you chatting away for a while.

Question 3. Is she in school/working?
When you are trying to stick with safe topics that will not take the mood of the date in a bad direction, you are usually pretty well off with this one.

Question 4. What are her goals?
You can ask this when it comes to life in general, or you can use this to find out what she wants to do with her career.

Question 5. What kind of books does she read/what music does she listen to?
Almost every one either reads, or listens to music so this is a great way to get to know what her style and taste is.

Question 6. What movies or television shows does she like?
You never know if you might have something in common, and f you like the same kinds of shows or movies, you may be able to set up another date based off the information she gives you.

Question 7. Does she like sports?
This is something else you may have in common, which can also lead to a future date that is successful because it will be based off a mutual interest.

Starting a good conversation is the best thing you can do when you are on a first date. It will make you both comfortable and will raise your chances of seeing her again.